Crying is Beautiful – Promote Yourself

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Cry girl, let it all out for now

It won’t change your life or make it new 

Cry girl, your face will move, unable to hold in the pain, the world will know 

Cry girl, your judges are everywhere but your soul can’t control what hurts it feels

Cry girl, your pain is beautiful, it reminds us you’re human, that life is real

Cry girl, your face is beautiful, tear stained, catharsis of what lies within 

Cry girl, and cry until your voice is heard, you’re not alone, other hearts will hear 

Emily Bird

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Crying is Beautiful – Promote Yourself

poetreecreations.wordpress.com

teatime 

Cry girl, let it all out for now

It won’t change your life or make it new 

Cry girl, your face will move, unable to hold in the pain, the world will know 

Cry girl, your judges are everywhere but your soul can’t control what hurts it feels

Cry girl, your pain is beautiful, it reminds us you’re human, that life is real

Cry girl, your face is beautiful, tear stained, catharsis of what lies within 

Cry girl, and cry until your voice is heard, you’re not alone, other hearts will hear 

Emily Bird

Woundstofeel.wordpress.com

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Janku celebration in Newari culture

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The word janku first is celebrated when he/she is a baby, which is known as ‘Pasni’ in Nepali and ‘Rice Feeding’ in English.

Beside this the rest of the jankus are done for the celebration of a life. This sort of a traditional is celebration when grand birthday of a person reaches a certain age. This date for celebrating janku is calculated by the priest on the basic of lunar calendar. Both man and women of newari community perform this celebration.

When the man reaches his age for Janku, it’s done together with his wife irrespective of her own age at the time. Even if unfortunately the spouse is dead, Janku is celebrated with gusto by the family, dressing the man of the hour into his finest and the woman looking like a new bride to be. At these times there are always a wishful melancholy and moments filled with tears of joy for being alive and surrounded by a loving family and being thankful to the gods for such wonderful.

Mainly jankus are done five times in later stage of life when they reach the ages between 77 and 106 yrs.

First janku is done when a person is of 77 yrs. 7months and 7days where they worship the sun as a god called BHIMRATHAROHAN. Where the grandsons carry the person’s chariot into their shoulders and visit the temples of god and goddess.

Second janku is done at the age of 83 yrs. 4months and 4days where they worship full moon called CHANDRARATHAROHAN.

(In which it believed that one has seen 1000 full moon in his /her life and their prayers are directed towards the moon.

Third janku is performed at the age of 88 yrs. 8 months and 8 days, which is called DEVRATHAROHAN. Where the grandsons pull the chariot and visit to the temples. While entering to home the persons chariot is entered from the window of the house.

Forth janku is done at the age of 99 yrs. 9 months and 9 days, which is called DIVYARATHAROHAN.

And the final one is performed at the age of 105 yrs. 8 months and 8 days old, which is called MAHADIVYARATHAROHAN.

For each of the ceremony, the elderly couple is dressed as bride and groom and takes seven steps before getting on a Rath (chariot). The sons and grandsons carrying them on the chariot parade them around town. Family and relatives of the couple follow the procession, everyone dressed to the nines.

Women shower them with flowers and vermilion powder and when they reached their home they are given Sagun wishing them a long healthy life together.

All the relatives’ even distant ones visit them to receive their blessings and have Bhoj (party) after the completion of all the rites and rituals of the ceremony.

The reason for Janku being performed at that particular age is that those are the times when it is said to be the most inauspicious time where any sort of harm can easily befall on him like getting into accidents, falling sick or worse dying. So to avoid or minimize these unpleasant happenings in one’s life different gods and goddesses are worshiped and prayed for their good health and a long life.

RIP to Miss. Dangol

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A pedestrian died on the spot after being hit by a truck. She is Ajita Dangol (Jamuna Dangol) Bachlor Student of Makwanpur Maltipal Campus. Miss.Dangol who was riding a bicycle was spot dead after truck hit her bicycle. The accident took place at Sanupokhara in Hetauda. Meanwhile, police have arrested the truck driver at Chaughada in Hetauda, while trying to escape. The dead body of Miss.Dangol is taken the Hetauda hospital for postmortum and for legal process to give the compensation to her family.

 

(mainly we hear the news of victims dead in road accidents because, the drivers think that if the victims alive he/she have to take care the health of the victim unless its totally fine and have to bear all the expenses occurred while treatments. so they try to kill the victim on the spot so that the compensation will be low ie. Nrs. 500,000.

What people want in marriage

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284415_143931332353584_7713814_n In a survey of over 1400 people around the USA it was found that there were five things that people wanted most from marriage. They are
  • Unconditional love
  • emotional intimacy
  • spiritual intimacy
  • encouragement
  • better friendships
  1. Unconditional love means that the person is loved no matter what mistakes he or she makes. If your husband loses his job, he will probably feel very bad about it. He needs to know that you love and respect him even though he lost the job. Respect is very important to a man.
  2. The second thing that people want is emotional intimacy. Men spell this s-e-x. Women spell in t-a-l-k and often s-e-x. Women want to be talked to and communicated with. They want their man to look them in the eyes, understand what they are saying and validate their feelings. Validating means saying “Yes, I know it hurts.” or “Yes, I know you have…

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